Lace Flowers
Family Competence Creator
I once coached an 18-year-old through heating baked beans at university—he was hyperventilating.
His parents sent him to uni with a laptop and car, but forgot to teach him how to feed himself.
That day I decided: my kids will never be helpless adults.
18 years later, my kids are confident, capable humans who can thrive anywhere. My 16-year-old just got invited to cook in a Jamie Oliver restaurant. My 4-year-old serves herself curry for breakfast.
I turn wealthy families' children into competent heirs who can carry legacies forward.
Because confidence comes from competence—and competence can't be bought, only built.
Preventing privileged children from becoming helpless adults, one family at a time.
18 years cooking with my children (started them at age 2)
Home and world schooled eldest for 8 years → aced high school exams including Food Tech & Spanish
Eldest invited to cook in Central London Jamie Oliver kitchen at 16
International business helping families raise competent humans
"Because competence is the ultimate privilege—and it can't be bought, only built."